A little girls story with stars in the sky!!

Hello there!!

Been a while I sat on my blog site. I was watching a movie yesterday after finishing our dinner and one of the movie scenes made me travel back in time with my childhood mother’s love and happiness filled memories. Here it is. Please read and enjoy! blink…blink…blink!!

It was way back in 90’s – 2000 I guess. The life used to be much calmer and settled. No gadgets, no partying hard and no hurry lifestyle in and around. Its only a few friends in the school and family around for me. I was one fortunate child who could spend more time with parents and people around, unlike the era that is happening now. It was like life is mine which is made only for me. There were already two kids before me and my father always loved the home to be full of laughing and jumping kids around. After I was born my family felt we are complete. The first two were calm and reserved by nature yet they are amazing kids in their own way. I was born calm where my mom says I didn’t cry much or bothered her much. I consider myself very different and more of nature’s person. I always loved to sleep with my mom or somewhere near to her. I feel there is a different warmth and secured feeling I get whenever I sleep with her or beside her. I always used to make sure I am closest to her and my hands wrapped around her body. This is one of the best and finest happiness in the world. I should say my innermost soul feels ecstatic even now with tiny tears in my eyes trying to flush out. Nothing else in this universe can beat this feeling of unconditional love and warmth. I believe this could be infants emotions too inside the mother’s womb before taking birth. Many emotions and feelings are not always explained in any language. Nature is the best way to understand and feel it.

My father used to work in a bank and once in three years, we are supposed to get transferred to a new place. Life used to be a bit different with a new place, a fresh bunch of buddies and a new school. However, after some time there are many new stories that would come up with new people and school times. I remember I was in class 6 at age of 12. This time it was not a very well developed city but a town with a limited number of people and one single highway that has the complete town staying to its right and left. We had a very big portico in the house we rented.

There used to be power cuts in summers where we stayed. A lot of mosquitoes too. I know its very gloomy to study especially during exams and during night times but these powercuts gave me wonderful memories is what I think now. 🙂

We had no other option but to set up beds outside our home and try to get some sleep. My father never liked the idea of sleeping out. He somehow adjusted himself inside the bedroom itself. I felt sad for him as the rooms were very hot from the daylight sun. My mom, my sister, brother and myself would always love to sleep outside. Most of the times, I am the one who tries to secure a big bed to sleep beside my mother. I use to have many funny and senseless conversations with her from my tiny mind at that age. My mother used to answer many with utmost patience and grace. I remember we both used to spot many shapes of the stars and tarot signs from the sky. We used to talk about Milkyway, galaxies and many more. Slowly without my conscience, I used to get into sleep as the cold and soothing wind comes and passes by. Wrapping myself inside the blanket that I and my mom shared was the beautiful feeling I ever had. In the middle of the night, If I had a short break of opening my eyes, I make sure to check my mom is beside me. Nights are sometimes scary too. 🙂 My mother is my biggest support and safety cover. Whenever I think of the old times, I feel how close and happy I was in my childhood with her always being around me and spending more time with me.

The time she invested in me and in my growth is priceless. The happiness and secured feeling my mind gathered at that tender age got so stuck in me, I feel pleasant and happy even today. Memories and her presence in my life since I am born are the ones I cherish forever. After marriage though I moved to some other place with my partner, I carry all the wonderful times spent with her and continue to do so. Mother is one of the wonderful creation of God from whom nature continues to re-happen. Please give time to your mothers at their old age and try all the possible ways to make her feel good and special. Family time and true emotions can’t be found everywhere. They are rare and priceless. Please value your families, time in your life and gods gift of life.

It’s sad when I see today’s newborns where they are left in daycares right from 6 months of age after they are born. Those were the lovely nights and serene sleep times I had in my childhood with my mother and nature. Happiness lies in tiny things. It’s rare that we realize and feel it. I believe for whatever I am today my parents are completely responsible. They gave me the most secured childhood and a great life.

These days I carry similar experiences with my better half on our holiday times now and then. He also enjoys sitting and spotting stars with me. I feel this is one way of relaxing ourselves and touching our souls within of being together. We spend time chatting and checking tiny, big and sparkling stars under the biggest natures roof. I believe in praying whenever we spot a falling star too. One of my friend and a lot of movies made me do so. 🙂

Even today, I love to share and recollect all my lovely moments of life with my mother and father back home.

Thanks as always for stopping by and reading my blog!

She is graceful!

This blog is all about being warm and empathetic towards others, giving time and taking care of those who seek your help and assistance. Skill of being sensible in this fast paced technology gadget filled world. Having those little emotions and concern towards others, and after all-knowing your limits and carrying a graceful attitude in everything you do.

After a long wait we have finally relocated from our mother country as my husband was offered a work based role abroad on a temporary basis. Flying and travel were fine and now comes the hunt for a home. 🙂

As per our past experiences and happy stay, we have decided to choose the same flat we rented sometime back. However, there happens to be a delay  for the moving date with a gap of 3 weeks between vacating our temporary stay before we occupy the new flat. Luckily, my husbands school friend stays in the same city with his family. We thought he would be the right choice to spend these 3 weeks before we move in to our flat.

It was a very fine morning and sunny day. A cab was hired from the hotel we stayed to their home. Almost after a 45 min drive, we reached their place and got a warm welcome by the couple. To my  surprise she has already made the necessary arrangements for our 3 week stay. Here I meet this girl with an interesting personality.

As there is a say “Gracefulness has more impact than beauty“. In brief she is quick and sensible. Knows her limits and ways to treat people to the best of her efforts. Genuine and energetic by nature and talkative too. People may mistake that she is calm and reserved at very first instance but she tends to open up over a period of time with those who make good conversations with her. And here comes the biggest mismatch to all the attributes I mentioned abv. lol She is much younger to me and belongs to 90’s born.  In current situations and changing lifestyles, its difficult and rare to encounter such females who are born from 90’s yet so down to earth and have good maturity levels and sensibilities.  These day things are happening in a such a way that there is no more a difference or a very little difference between nature of being male and female. IT world is trying to shade away the limits and boundaries set by nature drastically. Feminine and loving nature in females is slowly vanishing with time and changes in the lifestyles.

She was so warm and welcoming, it really made us feel better and happy through out our stay.  There could be other options for us to find a stay anywhere else too but the feeling of being part of a home and family is priceless in a new country. I could feel the pleasantness and welcoming attitude  in her treatment towards us no matter she is meeting us so closely just for the second time. The complete stay went well and four of us had a good family time.

 

I am writing my experience with her for two reasons. One being the love and joy she shared with us by helping out through out our stay. Secondly, personally making me feel loved and proud to meet a girl young at age and high in maturity and thoughtfulness that I rarely get to meet in general. A four wall room becomes a home and happy place to stay only when the lady of the house is welcoming and graceful with pleasant personality.  My elders always say – “You will have guests visiting you often and dines with you only when the lady of the house is welcoming and loving towards people and acts responsible towards their needs”. Before we moved out, as a friendly gesture, we tried to show them our thankfulness by selecting few useful gifts for their lovely home however, I realize the help they offered to us is more than anything that we could give back.

I believe any sort of help we get through someone matters when we need it at some situation in life! Every small piece of support has to be valued and treasured. All good you did in the past/present/future comes to you when you need the most from the universe. I believe this very much and pray god to give me more opportunities in life to serve for the better and do good. I wish to meet and spend time with more such genuine hearted and helpful souls to grow and strengthen my life experiences.

I wish them all the best in their lives and will cherish the good days we spent together. As a gift, this blog is to the couple we met and spent quality time.

Thanks for reading my blog as always!

 

 

Interview! – Happening since 6 years!

This is a blog about a girl attending interviews after interviews to find a right job or may be at right time and at right phase of her life. This word “right time” is something the blog is all about and to know, please read and  enjoy!!

There is a perfect time planned for everything in life and one can feel this truth only after certain vital experiences that life throws in a harder way sometimes!

She heard a lot and loads about what is an interview like, way of handling it, preparation before going for it and many more facts and figures when she was in her graduation days! In fact to start with, her first interview happened in an off campus interview style that were being conducted in some college near to a shopping mall. She just finished her graduation a week before this and was enjoying her holidays. On a Sunday noon, she along with her sister were on a shopping  mode. You may not believe it but yes, luck and opportunity may knock your door any time through any way it chooses to! This experience of her’s is the best fun-filled one as she was not scared/prepared or absolute no fear of facing people or questions at that moment though it was a sudden one. Her sister just wished her all the best and she sat for the interview in no time. Two rounds and 45 minutes with the process lead and HR person. Bingo! Offer letter with a job is in her hands along with the shopping bags! How thrilling it must have been for her! Wow!

Time gave her an opportunity to taste luck and favour of securing a job in a blink of eye however later consequences gave her totally very different experience of finding a single job that became tough.

Confidence, self-esteem, thought process, and many more valuable personality traits got affected while going through this process and her trails are still on no matter what. Many advised her to leave her attempts and relax being a good and happy house wife. Few advised some easy and short cut ways of finding some job that may or may not be a right fit for her but to get a satisfaction of being a working woman and to be able to earn some money at the end of each month. Few asked to leave it for time and destiny. She kept hearing all this however, her inner voice kept motivating her to try and try till she reaches the point she wanted to.  I believe only that person/Individual knows and understands the struggle and travel process when he/she is sure of the destination. Marriage was a sudden plan that happened to her and a relocation followed which played a major role in leaving her first job abruptly. There was with a confidence that new city so-called as ” City of Opportunities” she and her husband relocated may give her a job after or within 6 months at least and meanwhile she can enjoy her earlier months of a new marriage and life. However, destiny had a different plan for her. Its 6 full years now since she left her first job and she is still attending interviews after interviews to find a job again. True and a fact that’s happening with her. She is still attending interviews continuously since 6 years to find a right job at the right time god has planned for her. Her persistence and believing her self with her positive thought process is keeping her up to attend and speak during the interviews with utmost grace and confidence.

She made friends with many thoughts in her own mind during this journey that were disturbing, motivating and sometimes pulling her down or yet times asking her to stretch a bit more till she cracks some interview. She gets ready and prepares for the interview each time but it can be a bad interview, or unfit role or sometimes as always not the right time yet for her to get a job in her life. It may sound like ” Just a job” but yes, there are people who are struggling like her to get this one simple job. In her case she need not earn or be a bread maker for the family, but for many others it’s a must thing in life as equal as their each breadth. Through this experience she understood the meaning of “WORK IS WORSHIP”  no matter its small or big and there will be no day with sun light without a dark night. She believed and understood the meaning behind the line she heard ” Nothing stays long that comes easily”.

She is now waiting for one opportunity to work like any other women out there and get a satisfaction of she being independent again and to be called as “working women” for once.  She is not thirsty to earn more and more or to have a lavish life style with many savings losing the current happy and peaceful lifestyle she is blessed with however, still attending interviews to work once and leave it on her own with complete pride and grace. She doesn’t want to think or feel bad in her  forty’s or fifty’s of age that if she must have tried once she must have got a job.

Every job carry’s its own dignity. It doesn’t matter if its small or big, less money or more, I would like to show my respect and value to every one in the world who works hard each day and fills their stomach and takes care of their families with respect and grace.  Every attempt of achieving something in life is to be valued and respected. I hope she finds a good job at the right time to focus her capabilities and strengths. Her belief in herself and motivation from her family is making her travel through this INTERVIEW process for 6 years now and still going good just not for a job but to see many hidden turnings of her life planned by the super power.

As always thanks for taking time reading my blog!

Love..LOVE & LOVE :)

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